Reliable Once in a While
August 8, 1971
There is a thought from Confucius that touches upon the point of many personal and public problems. “A man who lacks reliability is utterly useless,” he said. In this there is much of what is wrong with the relationships of man to man – not being reliable, not being able to count on people to perform their part, to do what they say they will do when it needs to be done. And so disappointments and disillusionment occur from day to day. Someone says he’ll have something ready at a certain time, and it just isn’t ready. Someone borrows and says he’ll pay back or bring it back at a certain time, and it just isn’t paid back or brought back. Someone signs a contract and agrees to perform certain services, and just doesn’t do it. The list could be endlessly lengthened. Often there are unavoidable reasons, but only frustrating but frightening. All this could perhaps be compared to a parachute that opens only part of the time – or to brakes on a car that can’t be counted on consistently. It isn’t enough to be reliable once in awhle. Irreplaceable things can be destroyed, thefts committed, irreparable damage done to property, to people, to reputations, to some of the most precious things in life, if a person can’t be counted on. So many examples could be given of this lack of reliability – the uncertainty of not knowing what can – or who can – or cannot be counted on – like a faulty net beneath a trapeze performer. Suppose we couldn’t count on the promises of God. Suppose the astronauts in orbit couldn’t count on the calculations that others have made, or couldn’t count on the universe being run reliably. Suppose we couldn’t count on the tides or the sun, or the seasons. It isn’t the hit and miss performance that makes life possible, but the degree of reliability, dependability is utterly useless”