“Habit,” said Nathaniel Emmons, “is either the best of servants or the worst of masters.” In considering this subject we often emphasize the negative side⎯habit as the...
We often need an inner searching, of ourselves⎯our lives, our habits, and a searching of our surroundings, with frank and thoughtful appraisal of our own performance. “‘Tis greatly wise...
In a rushing, pressuring time, we well would pause to remind ourselves that the purpose of life, the purpose of God is to see that men find their highest happiness, their best accomplishment, their...
Some thoughts from Phillips Brooks suggest the benefit and blessing of encouragement and the destructive force of overemphasizing the negative side. “Your child, your scholar, your servant⎯you...
There come to mind at this moment two great gifts. One is Belonging. Imagine the loneliness of not belonging—to someone, to something; not to have an obligation to others, or an interest in them—of...
“Build thee more stately mansions, O my soul, As the swift seasons roll!” This is more than a line of finely phrased poetry. It suggests we must not be indifferent, or resigned, or...
We may hold things tightly for a limited time, but sometimes must relax to get a new hold. A new look at things, a new hold, is sometimes essential. But despite all this, there is value in routine...
We are reluctant to leave a changing season without some earnest searching of ourselves. “We ought daily to renew our vows,” said Thomas à Kempis, “and kindle our hearts . . . as...
There is always before us this matter of money _ and it seems that almost no one ever thought he had enough. In a letter to a noble lord, Edmund Burke wrote: “We spend our incomes…for a...
In “the pounding life inflicts upon us,” said an eminent physician, “Ventilation is deeply important…” referring, of course, to the opening up and airing out of our burdens,...
A sentence from Longfellow suggests a subject: “Believe me, every man has his secret sorrows, which the world knows not; and oftentimes we call a man cold when he is only sad.” The fact...
One of the greatest blessings that can come into the life of any child or youth, or anyone else, is intelligent and constructive discipline⎯first the discipline of self, and second, as necessary,...
One of the most effective ways of conditioning the character and conduct of children, of youth, as well as of others, is to be ourselves what we would have them to be—to be convincing in the counsel...
Sometimes after long effort, long work, we may ask ourselves when can we relax? When can we let down in life? There must be some diversions. We cannot drive ourselves all the time, nor be on tension...
As to pleasure and leisure and their place and importance: While there is need for leisure and relaxing, it is not good to have too many unoccupied hours; for there is too much too little time to do...
With all the influences there are outside the home, among the most important questions we should consider is the teaching of children within the home⎯not necessarily technical teaching, but...
“Who can predict the quality of life… in heaven in the great hereafter?” asked one worried observer. “Does it not depend on the quality of his present life? Are we not today...
We are in some measure acted upon by others and by outside influences, but also, in large measure, we are shaping ourselves. And in all our choosing and selecting and deciding, there is need for...
“Broadmindedness” is a word that has much meaning and much to commend it. But “The question is . . .” said Lewis Carroll, “The question is whether you make words mean...